The power of social connection
As I visit another city for work, I’m reminded how easy it is to be surrounded by people yet still feel disconnected. In a world that never stops moving, being present has become something we have to consciously choose.
I sit in a restaurant having dinner. Around me are families together, but not really. In some, children are on phones, adults talk but seem distracted. Others laugh, joke, and play at the table. It makes me wonder, what does social connection really mean?
Connection Begins at Birth
Connection begins the moment we are born. From being held and soothed, we learn what safety and belonging feel like. As we grow, we continue to learn through the people around us, how they listen, respond, and make time for others. These early experiences shape how we understand connection and what we expect it to look like as adults.
How we show up matters. Being calm, present, and a good listener helps others feel seen and builds trust. Connection encourages vulnerability, but it also makes us stronger and more resilient. It helps us recover from stress, adapt to change, and stay grounded through challenges.
What Connection Gives Us
Social connection looks different for everyone, yet one thing is constant, we all need it. Some connect through conversation, shared experiences, or teamwork. Others through faith, nature, or creative expression. What matters is not how we connect, but that we do.
Connection gives us:
A sense of belonging and purpose
Improved mental wellbeing and reduced stress
Greater resilience when life feels uncertain
Better physical health and faster recovery from illness
More empathy, trust, and collaboration in relationships and workplaces
When we take time to connect, greeting a colleague by name, sharing a meal, pausing to listen, or offering encouragement, we create small moments that build a culture of care. These moments matter more than we realise.
The World Health Organization notes that strong social connection is linked to better health and longer life. Meaningful relationships do not just help us feel better, they help us live better.
The Cost of Disconnection
When we stop making time for others, disconnection creeps in quietly. We can feel lonely, unseen, and unsupported, even when surrounded by people. Over time, that lack of connection can increase stress, lower mood, and affect our physical health.
In the workplace, disconnection often shows up as burnout, low engagement, and reduced creativity. Teams that lack connection tend to struggle with communication and trust. Over time, this takes a toll on both wellbeing and performance.
Research now shows that loneliness carries similar health risks to smoking or obesity. It affects energy, motivation, and how we see ourselves in relation to others. Yet connection, even in small doses, can reverse this, restoring balance and emotional safety.
Creating Space for Connection
Making time for connection does not mean big gestures. It is about presence, slowing down enough to really listen, remembering small details, and making space for others to feel heard and valued.
Social connection is not just about being around people. It is about feeling heard, appreciated, and part of something bigger. It gives us belonging, purpose, and safety, which are the foundations of both physical and mental health.
For me, connection is talking with my family in the UK and spending time walking or playing games with my husband and children. Those moments fill my cup and remind me what truly matters.
And just as important is taking time for solitude. Quiet moments to breathe, reflect, and reset help us reconnect with ourselves so we can engage with others from a place of calm and clarity.
Final Reflection
As you move through your week, notice where connection shows up and where it might need more space. Every conversation, smile, or shared moment can bring someone, including yourself, back to balance.
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